Well, you know what it's like when you first sleep with someone you don't know? Yes It's... you, like, become this blank canvas and it gives you an opportunity to project onto that canvas who you want to be. That's what's interesting because everybody does that.
One day you're seventeen and planning for someday. And quietly and without you ever really noticing, someday is today. And then someday is yesterday. And this is you're life.